Style
Back
- Fashion
- Beauty
Self
Back
Home
Back
- Decor
- Food
- Zero Waste
- Gifts
Culture
Back
Newsletter
About
Back
- About
- Advertise
- Careers
Search

Stefanie Vallejo Monahan

A clear glass vase with white and pale pink roses sits on a wooden table in a softly lit, modern room with a framed photo and lamp in the background.

February 6, 2026

Relationships

What Online Dating In My 50s Taught Me About Myself

A hand holds up a dried thistle stem against a clear blue sky.

February 2, 2026

Self

Why I’m Embracing My “Inner Crone” At Age 55

8M1A4229-Enhanced-NR

September 21, 2025

Self

How I’m Healing My Mind-Gut Connection

Four women dressed in neutral-toned clothing stand closely together, facing away from the camera with arms around each other.

May 8, 2025

Relationships

How I Found Nurturing Mothers As An Adult After A Complicated Relationship With My Own

Person seated at a wooden table, wearing a watch, looking at a laptop screen with hand on chin in a thoughtful pose.

March 4, 2025

Culture

How I Made Peace With “Working For The Man”

8M1A7062-Enhanced-NR (1)

October 1, 2024

Culture

How I’m Releasing Resentment About The Religion I Was Raised In At 54

TGT FALL LICENSING 2021 (FINAL EDIT)

January 24, 2024

Self

My Self-Acceptance Journey From Girlhood To Menopause

attachment-630e73e7e0ad271f527ef541

September 2, 2022

Self

Reader Essay: How Swimming Alcatraz Helped Me Overcome Anxiety

img:is([sizes=auto i],[sizes^="auto," i]){contain-intrinsic-size:3000px 1500px}:root{--wp-block-synced-color:#7a00df;--wp-block-synced-color--rgb:122,0,223;--wp-bound-block-color:var(--wp-block-synced-color);--wp-editor-canvas-background:#ddd;--wp-admin-theme-color:#007cba;--wp-admin-theme-color--rgb:0,124,186;--wp-admin-theme-color-darker-10:#006ba1;--wp-admin-theme-color-darker-10--rgb:0,107,160.5;--wp-admin-theme-color-darker-20:#005a87;--wp-admin-theme-color-darker-20--rgb:0,90,135;--wp-admin-border-width-focus:2px}@media (min-resolution:192dpi){:root{--wp-admin-border-width-focus:1.5px}}.wp-element-button{cursor:pointer}:root .has-very-light-gray-background-color{background-color:#eee}:root .has-very-dark-gray-background-color{background-color:#313131}:root .has-very-light-gray-color{color:#eee}:root .has-very-dark-gray-color{color:#313131}:root .has-vivid-green-cyan-to-vivid-cyan-blue-gradient-background{background:linear-gradient(135deg,#00d084,#0693e3)}:root .has-purple-crush-gradient-background{background:linear-gradient(135deg,#34e2e4,#4721fb 50%,#ab1dfe)}:root .has-hazy-dawn-gradient-background{background:linear-gradient(135deg,#faaca8,#dad0ec)}:root .has-subdued-olive-gradient-background{background:linear-gradient(135deg,#fafae1,#67a671)}:root .has-atomic-cream-gradient-background{background:linear-gradient(135deg,#fdd79a,#004a59)}:root .has-nightshade-gradient-background{background:linear-gradient(135deg,#330968,#31cdcf)}:root .has-midnight-gradient-background{background:linear-gradient(135deg,#020381,#2874fc)}:root{--wp--preset--font-size--normal:16px;--wp--preset--font-size--huge:42px}.has-regular-font-size{font-size:1em}.has-larger-font-size{font-size:2.625em}.has-normal-font-size{font-size:var(--wp--preset--font-size--normal)}.has-huge-font-size{font-size:var(--wp--preset--font-size--huge)}:root .has-text-align-center{text-align:center}:root .has-text-align-left{text-align:left}:root .has-text-align-right{text-align:right}.has-fit-text{white-space:nowrap !important}#end-resizable-editor-section{display:none}.aligncenter{clear:both}.items-justified-left{justify-content:flex-start}.items-justified-center{justify-content:center}.items-justified-right{justify-content:flex-end}.items-justified-space-between{justify-content:space-between}.screen-reader-text{word-wrap:normal !important;border:0;clip-path:inset(50%);height:1px;margin:-1px;overflow:hidden;padding:0;position:absolute;width:1px}.screen-reader-text:focus{background-color:#ddd;clip-path:none;color:#444;display:block;font-size:1em;height:auto;left:5px;line-height:normal;padding:15px 23px 14px;text-decoration:none;top:5px;width:auto;z-index:100000}html :where(.has-border-color){border-style:solid}html :where([style*=border-color]){border-style:solid}html :where([style*=border-top-color]){border-top-style:solid}html :where([style*=border-right-color]){border-right-style:solid}html :where([style*=border-bottom-color]){border-bottom-style:solid}html :where([style*=border-left-color]){border-left-style:solid}html :where([style*=border-width]){border-style:solid}html :where([style*=border-top-width]){border-top-style:solid}html :where([style*=border-right-width]){border-right-style:solid}html :where([style*=border-bottom-width]){border-bottom-style:solid}html :where([style*=border-left-width]){border-left-style:solid}html :where(img[class*=wp-image-]){height:auto;max-width:100%}:where(figure){margin:0 0 1em}html :where(.is-position-sticky){--wp-admin--admin-bar--position-offset:var(--wp-admin--admin-bar--height,0px)}@media screen and (max-width:600px){html :where(.is-position-sticky){--wp-admin--admin-bar--position-offset:0px}}.wp-block-button__link{align-content:center;box-sizing:border-box;cursor:pointer;display:inline-block;height:100%;text-align:center;word-break:break-word}.wp-block-button__link.aligncenter{text-align:center}.wp-block-button__link.alignright{text-align:right}:where(.wp-block-button__link){border-radius:9999px;box-shadow:none;padding:calc(.667em + 2px) calc(1.333em + 2px);text-decoration:none}.wp-block-button[style*=text-decoration] .wp-block-button__link{text-decoration:inherit}.wp-block-buttons>.wp-block-button.has-custom-width{max-width:none}.wp-block-buttons>.wp-block-button.has-custom-width .wp-block-button__link{width:100%}.wp-block-buttons>.wp-block-button.has-custom-font-size .wp-block-button__link{font-size:inherit}.wp-block-buttons>.wp-block-button.wp-block-button__width-25{width:calc(25% - var(--wp--style--block-gap,.5em) * .75)}.wp-block-buttons>.wp-block-button.wp-block-button__width-50{width:calc(50% - var(--wp--style--block-gap,.5em) * .5)}.wp-block-buttons>.wp-block-button.wp-block-button__width-75{width:calc(75% - var(--wp--style--block-gap,.5em) * .25)}.wp-block-buttons>.wp-block-button.wp-block-button__width-100{flex-basis:100%;width:100%}.wp-block-buttons.is-vertical>.wp-block-button.wp-block-button__width-25{width:25%}.wp-block-buttons.is-vertical>.wp-block-button.wp-block-button__width-50{width:50%}.wp-block-buttons.is-vertical>.wp-block-button.wp-block-button__width-75{width:75%}.wp-block-button.is-style-squared,.wp-block-button__link.wp-block-button.is-style-squared{border-radius:0}.wp-block-button.no-border-radius,.wp-block-button__link.no-border-radius{border-radius:0 !important}:root :where(.wp-block-button .wp-block-button__link.is-style-outline),:root :where(.wp-block-button.is-style-outline>.wp-block-button__link){border:2px solid;padding:.667em 1.333em}:root :where(.wp-block-button .wp-block-button__link.is-style-outline:not(.has-text-color)),:root :where(.wp-block-button.is-style-outline>.wp-block-button__link:not(.has-text-color)){color:currentColor}:root :where(.wp-block-button .wp-block-button__link.is-style-outline:not(.has-background)),:root :where(.wp-block-button.is-style-outline>.wp-block-button__link:not(.has-background)){background-color:initial;background-image:none}:root :where(.wp-block-button .wp-block-button__link.is-style-outline:not(.has-background)).nitro-lazy,:root :where(.wp-block-button.is-style-outline>.wp-block-button__link:not(.has-background)).nitro-lazy{background-image:none !important}:root{--wp--preset--aspect-ratio--square:1;--wp--preset--aspect-ratio--4-3:4/3;--wp--preset--aspect-ratio--3-4:3/4;--wp--preset--aspect-ratio--3-2:3/2;--wp--preset--aspect-ratio--2-3:2/3;--wp--preset--aspect-ratio--16-9:16/9;--wp--preset--aspect-ratio--9-16:9/16;--wp--preset--color--black:#000;--wp--preset--color--cyan-bluish-gray:#abb8c3;--wp--preset--color--white:#fff;--wp--preset--color--pale-pink:#f78da7;--wp--preset--color--vivid-red:#cf2e2e;--wp--preset--color--luminous-vivid-orange:#ff6900;--wp--preset--color--luminous-vivid-amber:#fcb900;--wp--preset--color--light-green-cyan:#7bdcb5;--wp--preset--color--vivid-green-cyan:#00d084;--wp--preset--color--pale-cyan-blue:#8ed1fc;--wp--preset--color--vivid-cyan-blue:#0693e3;--wp--preset--color--vivid-purple:#9b51e0;--wp--preset--color--black-2:#1e2128;--wp--preset--color--charcoal-grey:hsl(46.36,33.33%,87.06%);--wp--preset--color--cashmere:var(--cashmere);--wp--preset--gradient--vivid-cyan-blue-to-vivid-purple:linear-gradient(135deg,#0693e3 0%,#9b51e0 100%);--wp--preset--gradient--light-green-cyan-to-vivid-green-cyan:linear-gradient(135deg,#7adcb4 0%,#00d082 100%);--wp--preset--gradient--luminous-vivid-amber-to-luminous-vivid-orange:linear-gradient(135deg,#fcb900 0%,#ff6900 100%);--wp--preset--gradient--luminous-vivid-orange-to-vivid-red:linear-gradient(135deg,#ff6900 0%,#cf2e2e 100%);--wp--preset--gradient--very-light-gray-to-cyan-bluish-gray:linear-gradient(135deg,#eee 0%,#a9b8c3 100%);--wp--preset--gradient--cool-to-warm-spectrum:linear-gradient(135deg,#4aeadc 0%,#9778d1 20%,#cf2aba 40%,#ee2c82 60%,#fb6962 80%,#fef84c 100%);--wp--preset--gradient--blush-light-purple:linear-gradient(135deg,#ffceec 0%,#9896f0 100%);--wp--preset--gradient--blush-bordeaux:linear-gradient(135deg,#fecda5 0%,#fe2d2d 50%,#6b003e 100%);--wp--preset--gradient--luminous-dusk:linear-gradient(135deg,#ffcb70 0%,#c751c0 50%,#4158d0 100%);--wp--preset--gradient--pale-ocean:linear-gradient(135deg,#fff5cb 0%,#b6e3d4 50%,#33a7b5 100%);--wp--preset--gradient--electric-grass:linear-gradient(135deg,#caf880 0%,#71ce7e 100%);--wp--preset--gradient--midnight:linear-gradient(135deg,#020381 0%,#2874fc 100%);--wp--preset--gradient--spring-wood:linear-gradient(180deg,rgba(238,227,217,1) 0%,rgba(238,227,217,1) 40%,rgba(197,173,149,1) 100%);--wp--preset--gradient--linen-wood:linear-gradient(135deg,rgba(241,233,225,1) 0%,rgba(200,172,151,1) 71%);--wp--preset--font-size--small:var(--paragraph-font-size--small);--wp--preset--font-size--medium:var(--h4-font-size);--wp--preset--font-size--large:var(--h2-font-size);--wp--preset--font-size--x-large:42px;--wp--preset--font-size--extra-small:var(--paragraph-font-size--extra-small);--wp--preset--font-size--regular:var(--paragraph-font-size--default);--wp--preset--font-family--classico-urw:"classico-urw",sans-serif;--wp--preset--font-family--commuters-sans:"Commuters Sans",sans-serif;--wp--preset--font-family--lora:"Lora",sans-serif;--wp--preset--spacing--20:.44rem;--wp--preset--spacing--30:.67rem;--wp--preset--spacing--40:1rem;--wp--preset--spacing--50:1.5rem;--wp--preset--spacing--60:2.25rem;--wp--preset--spacing--70:3.38rem;--wp--preset--spacing--80:5.06rem;--wp--preset--shadow--natural:6px 6px 9px rgba(0,0,0,.2);--wp--preset--shadow--deep:12px 12px 50px rgba(0,0,0,.4);--wp--preset--shadow--sharp:6px 6px 0px rgba(0,0,0,.2);--wp--preset--shadow--outlined:6px 6px 0px -3px #fff,6px 6px #000;--wp--preset--shadow--crisp:6px 6px 0px #000;--wp--custom--font-primary:classico-urw;--wp--custom--line-height--body:1.7;--wp--custom--line-height--heading:1.3;--wp--custom--line-height--page-title:1.1;--wp--custom--spacing--unit:20px;--wp--custom--spacing--horizontal:25px;--wp--custom--spacing--vertical:30px;--wp--custom--spacing--outer:calc(.6 * var(--wp--custom--spacing--horizontal));--wp--custom--font-weight--light:200;--wp--custom--font-weight--normal:400;--wp--custom--font-weight--semibold:600}:root{--wp--style--global--content-size:1268px;--wp--style--global--wide-size:1460px}:where(body){margin:0}.wp-site-blocks>.alignleft{float:left;margin-right:2em}.wp-site-blocks>.alignright{float:right;margin-left:2em}.wp-site-blocks>.aligncenter{justify-content:center;margin-left:auto;margin-right:auto}:where(.wp-site-blocks)>*{margin-block-start:24px;margin-block-end:0}:where(.wp-site-blocks)>:first-child{margin-block-start:0}:where(.wp-site-blocks)>:last-child{margin-block-end:0}:root{--wp--style--block-gap:24px}:root :where(.is-layout-flow)>:first-child{margin-block-start:0}:root :where(.is-layout-flow)>:last-child{margin-block-end:0}:root :where(.is-layout-flow)>*{margin-block-start:24px;margin-block-end:0}:root :where(.is-layout-constrained)>:first-child{margin-block-start:0}:root :where(.is-layout-constrained)>:last-child{margin-block-end:0}:root :where(.is-layout-constrained)>*{margin-block-start:24px;margin-block-end:0}:root :where(.is-layout-flex){gap:24px}:root :where(.is-layout-grid){gap:24px}.is-layout-flow>.alignleft{float:left;margin-inline-start:0;margin-inline-end:2em}.is-layout-flow>.alignright{float:right;margin-inline-start:2em;margin-inline-end:0}.is-layout-flow>.aligncenter{margin-left:auto !important;margin-right:auto !important}.is-layout-constrained>.alignleft{float:left;margin-inline-start:0;margin-inline-end:2em}.is-layout-constrained>.alignright{float:right;margin-inline-start:2em;margin-inline-end:0}.is-layout-constrained>.aligncenter{margin-left:auto !important;margin-right:auto !important}.is-layout-constrained>:where(:not(.alignleft):not(.alignright):not(.alignfull)){max-width:var(--wp--style--global--content-size);margin-left:auto !important;margin-right:auto !important}.is-layout-constrained>.alignwide{max-width:var(--wp--style--global--wide-size)}body .is-layout-flex{display:flex}.is-layout-flex{flex-wrap:wrap;align-items:center}.is-layout-flex>:is(*, div){margin:0}body .is-layout-grid{display:grid}.is-layout-grid>:is(*, div){margin:0}body{padding-top:0px;padding-right:0px;padding-bottom:0px;padding-left:0px}:root :where(.wp-element-button, .wp-block-button__link){background-color:#32373c;border-width:0;color:#fff;font-family:inherit;font-size:inherit;font-style:inherit;font-weight:inherit;letter-spacing:inherit;line-height:inherit;padding-top:calc(.667em + 2px);padding-right:calc(1.333em + 2px);padding-bottom:calc(.667em + 2px);padding-left:calc(1.333em + 2px);text-decoration:none;text-transform:inherit}.has-black-color{color:var(--wp--preset--color--black) !important}.has-cyan-bluish-gray-color{color:var(--wp--preset--color--cyan-bluish-gray) !important}.has-white-color{color:var(--wp--preset--color--white) !important}.has-pale-pink-color{color:var(--wp--preset--color--pale-pink) !important}.has-vivid-red-color{color:var(--wp--preset--color--vivid-red) !important}.has-luminous-vivid-orange-color{color:var(--wp--preset--color--luminous-vivid-orange) !important}.has-luminous-vivid-amber-color{color:var(--wp--preset--color--luminous-vivid-amber) !important}.has-light-green-cyan-color{color:var(--wp--preset--color--light-green-cyan) !important}.has-vivid-green-cyan-color{color:var(--wp--preset--color--vivid-green-cyan) !important}.has-pale-cyan-blue-color{color:var(--wp--preset--color--pale-cyan-blue) !important}.has-vivid-cyan-blue-color{color:var(--wp--preset--color--vivid-cyan-blue) !important}.has-vivid-purple-color{color:var(--wp--preset--color--vivid-purple) !important}.has-black-2-color{color:var(--wp--preset--color--black-2) !important}.has-charcoal-grey-color{color:var(--wp--preset--color--charcoal-grey) !important}.has-cashmere-color{color:var(--wp--preset--color--cashmere) !important}.has-black-background-color{background-color:var(--wp--preset--color--black) !important}.has-cyan-bluish-gray-background-color{background-color:var(--wp--preset--color--cyan-bluish-gray) !important}.has-white-background-color{background-color:var(--wp--preset--color--white) !important}.has-pale-pink-background-color{background-color:var(--wp--preset--color--pale-pink) !important}.has-vivid-red-background-color{background-color:var(--wp--preset--color--vivid-red) !important}.has-luminous-vivid-orange-background-color{background-color:var(--wp--preset--color--luminous-vivid-orange) !important}.has-luminous-vivid-amber-background-color{background-color:var(--wp--preset--color--luminous-vivid-amber) !important}.has-light-green-cyan-background-color{background-color:var(--wp--preset--color--light-green-cyan) !important}.has-vivid-green-cyan-background-color{background-color:var(--wp--preset--color--vivid-green-cyan) !important}.has-pale-cyan-blue-background-color{background-color:var(--wp--preset--color--pale-cyan-blue) !important}.has-vivid-cyan-blue-background-color{background-color:var(--wp--preset--color--vivid-cyan-blue) !important}.has-vivid-purple-background-color{background-color:var(--wp--preset--color--vivid-purple) !important}.has-black-2-background-color{background-color:var(--wp--preset--color--black-2) !important}.has-charcoal-grey-background-color{background-color:var(--wp--preset--color--charcoal-grey) !important}.has-cashmere-background-color{background-color:var(--wp--preset--color--cashmere) !important}.has-black-border-color{border-color:var(--wp--preset--color--black) !important}.has-cyan-bluish-gray-border-color{border-color:var(--wp--preset--color--cyan-bluish-gray) !important}.has-white-border-color{border-color:var(--wp--preset--color--white) !important}.has-pale-pink-border-color{border-color:var(--wp--preset--color--pale-pink) !important}.has-vivid-red-border-color{border-color:var(--wp--preset--color--vivid-red) !important}.has-luminous-vivid-orange-border-color{border-color:var(--wp--preset--color--luminous-vivid-orange) !important}.has-luminous-vivid-amber-border-color{border-color:var(--wp--preset--color--luminous-vivid-amber) !important}.has-light-green-cyan-border-color{border-color:var(--wp--preset--color--light-green-cyan) !important}.has-vivid-green-cyan-border-color{border-color:var(--wp--preset--color--vivid-green-cyan) !important}.has-pale-cyan-blue-border-color{border-color:var(--wp--preset--color--pale-cyan-blue) !important}.has-vivid-cyan-blue-border-color{border-color:var(--wp--preset--color--vivid-cyan-blue) !important}.has-vivid-purple-border-color{border-color:var(--wp--preset--color--vivid-purple) !important}.has-black-2-border-color{border-color:var(--wp--preset--color--black-2) !important}.has-charcoal-grey-border-color{border-color:var(--wp--preset--color--charcoal-grey) !important}.has-cashmere-border-color{border-color:var(--wp--preset--color--cashmere) !important}.has-vivid-cyan-blue-to-vivid-purple-gradient-background{background:var(--wp--preset--gradient--vivid-cyan-blue-to-vivid-purple) !important}.has-light-green-cyan-to-vivid-green-cyan-gradient-background{background:var(--wp--preset--gradient--light-green-cyan-to-vivid-green-cyan) !important}.has-luminous-vivid-amber-to-luminous-vivid-orange-gradient-background{background:var(--wp--preset--gradient--luminous-vivid-amber-to-luminous-vivid-orange) !important}.has-luminous-vivid-orange-to-vivid-red-gradient-background{background:var(--wp--preset--gradient--luminous-vivid-orange-to-vivid-red) !important}.has-very-light-gray-to-cyan-bluish-gray-gradient-background{background:var(--wp--preset--gradient--very-light-gray-to-cyan-bluish-gray) !important}.has-cool-to-warm-spectrum-gradient-background{background:var(--wp--preset--gradient--cool-to-warm-spectrum) !important}.has-blush-light-purple-gradient-background{background:var(--wp--preset--gradient--blush-light-purple) !important}.has-blush-bordeaux-gradient-background{background:var(--wp--preset--gradient--blush-bordeaux) !important}.has-luminous-dusk-gradient-background{background:var(--wp--preset--gradient--luminous-dusk) !important}.has-pale-ocean-gradient-background{background:var(--wp--preset--gradient--pale-ocean) !important}.has-electric-grass-gradient-background{background:var(--wp--preset--gradient--electric-grass) !important}.has-midnight-gradient-background{background:var(--wp--preset--gradient--midnight) !important}.has-spring-wood-gradient-background{background:var(--wp--preset--gradient--spring-wood) !important}.has-linen-wood-gradient-background{background:var(--wp--preset--gradient--linen-wood) !important}.has-small-font-size{font-size:var(--wp--preset--font-size--small) !important}.has-medium-font-size{font-size:var(--wp--preset--font-size--medium) !important}.has-large-font-size{font-size:var(--wp--preset--font-size--large) !important}.has-x-large-font-size{font-size:var(--wp--preset--font-size--x-large) !important}.has-extra-small-font-size{font-size:var(--wp--preset--font-size--extra-small) !important}.has-regular-font-size{font-size:var(--wp--preset--font-size--regular) !important}.has-classico-urw-font-family{font-family:var(--wp--preset--font-family--classico-urw) !important}.has-commuters-sans-font-family{font-family:var(--wp--preset--font-family--commuters-sans) !important}.has-lora-font-family{font-family:var(--wp--preset--font-family--lora) !important}.newsletter-invite{margin-top:5.3% !important}@media (width <= 768px){.center-mobile{text-align:center !important;text-wrap:balance}.m0-auto{margin:0 auto !important;display:block !important}.mt0{margin-top:0 !important}.mt0mob{margin-top:0 !important}}@media (max-width: 500px){.form-inline-black .formkit-form[min-width] .formkit-fields,.form-inline-brown .formkit-form[min-width] .formkit-fields{display:flex !important;flex-direction:column !important;margin:0 !important;width:100% !important}}.formkit-form[data-uid="971ca9850c"][min-width~="700"] [data-style="clean"],.formkit-form[data-uid="971ca9850c"][min-width~="800"] [data-style="clean"]{padding:10px;padding-top:0 !important}